Experience is the Best Teacher in the life ... must often people who say so .. For me the experience was not only something that is considered valuable, but more on the fact that teaches us to understand and survive. Experience invites us to appreciate what we have been through. Experience makes us live better lives and become better individuals as well.
Life is Art of Learning Experience!
Life is a Trial and Error, it always starts at a time, in one state, by each person. We all know and understand new things started to "try", if it works it's good, but if not, we'll try again ... so I called Trial and Error.
From experience we can have a tangible product we've ever been through, whether it pleases or not. It can be said if the experience was fun then, consciously or not, there will be a sense of high self-esteem, especially when up to produce a great work ... usually so narcissistic ... heheheeee
But from a less pleasant experience always arises two results which will not be denied, we will be drowning our first experience with it and consider it a shameful failure. Or the second one is to face the fact that (aka pairs of steel face plate ... heart ... think again ..) and correct the mistakes done. But what if it could not be recovered or fixed ... it's called destiny, and indeed it should be .. the problem is not from a reality that has happened but of our attitude to deal with and prevent others from doing the same thing. By helping others to anticipate, our charity for at least the scales in the afterlife can be added.
I often say, life's choices, but that does not mean if you do not want then commit suicide live... That's not the point. In this life we are always faced with two choices, yes or no. The fact is not able or not, but like want or not (yes or no). Regardless of which still can be done by earthly humans, we are able... had been arranged by the Almighty that we CAN. Obstacles faced at the time it started we began to have doubts about ourselves, with the ability given by the Creator so emerge the language that we often hear ... "Want or Not?"
The experience made me, someone who continues to try to control yourself, know who I am even better, also learn to understand others, learn to value others and most importantly is to learn to "cope" with others ... yes ... a bit spooky Not exactly, the meaning of cope with other people is how to keep other people's feelings of attitude and my words, welllll ... I admit, not a few people upset, hate and even disappointed with whatever I do or I say.
As did I ask for forgiveness, it still wound is still there in their hearts and feelings. Although in their mouths forgive me, but the anger and disappointment will imprint. This is one of my life experiences to make myself grow. The fact is what makes me strong to this day ... Not easy to deal with it, not even my words in writing as easy as this.
Moved gradually it all with a big heart ... and keep stepping to make things better again.
Life is Art of Learning Experience!
Life is a Trial and Error, it always starts at a time, in one state, by each person. We all know and understand new things started to "try", if it works it's good, but if not, we'll try again ... so I called Trial and Error.
From experience we can have a tangible product we've ever been through, whether it pleases or not. It can be said if the experience was fun then, consciously or not, there will be a sense of high self-esteem, especially when up to produce a great work ... usually so narcissistic ... heheheeee
But from a less pleasant experience always arises two results which will not be denied, we will be drowning our first experience with it and consider it a shameful failure. Or the second one is to face the fact that (aka pairs of steel face plate ... heart ... think again ..) and correct the mistakes done. But what if it could not be recovered or fixed ... it's called destiny, and indeed it should be .. the problem is not from a reality that has happened but of our attitude to deal with and prevent others from doing the same thing. By helping others to anticipate, our charity for at least the scales in the afterlife can be added.
I often say, life's choices, but that does not mean if you do not want then commit suicide live... That's not the point. In this life we are always faced with two choices, yes or no. The fact is not able or not, but like want or not (yes or no). Regardless of which still can be done by earthly humans, we are able... had been arranged by the Almighty that we CAN. Obstacles faced at the time it started we began to have doubts about ourselves, with the ability given by the Creator so emerge the language that we often hear ... "Want or Not?"
The experience made me, someone who continues to try to control yourself, know who I am even better, also learn to understand others, learn to value others and most importantly is to learn to "cope" with others ... yes ... a bit spooky Not exactly, the meaning of cope with other people is how to keep other people's feelings of attitude and my words, welllll ... I admit, not a few people upset, hate and even disappointed with whatever I do or I say.
As did I ask for forgiveness, it still wound is still there in their hearts and feelings. Although in their mouths forgive me, but the anger and disappointment will imprint. This is one of my life experiences to make myself grow. The fact is what makes me strong to this day ... Not easy to deal with it, not even my words in writing as easy as this.
Moved gradually it all with a big heart ... and keep stepping to make things better again.
In BAHASA:
Pengalaman adalah Guru Terbaik dalam kehidupan... pasti sering dech orang yang bilang kaya gitu.. Buatku, Pengalaman tidak hanya sesuatu yang dianggap berharga, tapi lebih pada kenyataan yang mengajari kita untuk memahami dan bertahan hidup. Pengalaman mengajak kita untuk lebih menghargai apa yang telah kita lalui. Pengalaman menjadikan kita untuk hidup lebih baik dan menjadi individu yang lebih baik juga.
Pengalaman adalah Seni Belajar Hidup!!!
Hidup ini merupakan Trial and Error, semuanya selalu dimulai pada satu waktu, pada satu keadaan, oleh masing-masing orang. Kita semua mengetahui dan memahami hal baru dengan diawali "coba-coba", kalau berhasil itu bagus; tapi kalau tidak, kita akan mencobanya lagi... makanya saya sebut Trial and Error.
Dari pengalaman kita bisa mendapatkan suatu karya nyata yang pernah kita lalui, baik itu menyenangkan atau tidak. Boleh dibilang kalau pengalaman itu menyenangkan maka, disadari maupun tidak, akan timbul rasa tingginya harga diri, apalagi kalau sampai menghasilkan suatu karya besar...biasanya jadi narsis...heheheeee
Tapi dari pengalaman yang kurang menyenangkan selalu timbul dua hasil yang tidak akan dipungkiri, pertama kita kita akan terpuruk dengan pengalaman itu dan menganggapnya suatu kegagalan yang memalukan. atau yang kedua adalah menghadapi kenyataan itu (a.k.a. pasang muka lempeng...hati baja...mikir lagi..) dan pasang badan untuk memperbaiki kesalahan yang diperbuat. Tapi gimana kalau kejadiannya tidak bisa kita ulang...itu namanya takdir dan memang sudah seharusnya begitu..masalah yang ada adalah bukan dari kenyataan yang telah terjadi namun dari sikap kita menghadapinya dan mencegah orang lain melakukan hal yang sama. Dengan membantu orang lain untuk mengantisipasi, setidaknya timbangan amal kita untuk di akhirat bisa ditambahkan.
Saya sering kali berkata, hidup itu pilihan, tapi bukan berarti kalau nggak mau hidup terus bunuh diri yachhh... Bukan itu maksudnya. Dalam menjalani kehidupan ini kita selalu dihadapkan pada dua pilihan, ya atau tidak. Faktanya bukanlah bisa atau tidak, melainkan mau atau tidak (ya atau tidak). Apapun yang masih bersifat duniawi dapat dilakukan oleh manusia, kita mampu koq...memang sudah diatur oleh Yang Kuasa agar kita menjadi bisa.Kendala itu mulai dihadapi pada saat kita mulai ragu dengan diri kita sendiri, dengan kemampuan yang diberikan oleh Pencipta sehingga timbulah bahasa yang seringkali kita dengar... "Mau Nggak?"
Pengalaman menjadikan saya, seseorang yang terus mau mencoba untuk mengendalikan diri, mengenal siapa saya lebih baik lagi, juga belajar memahami orang lain, belajar untuk mengerti orang lain dan yang terpenting adalah belajar untuk "mengatasi" orang lain... agak spooky ya... Nggak juga sih, maksudnya mengatasi orang lain adalah cara menjaga perasaan orang lain dari sikap dan perkataanku, yaaahhh... saya akui, tidak sedikit orang yang kesal, benci bahkan kecewa dengan apa yang pernah saya lakukan atau saya katakan.
Sebagaimana pun saya memintakan maaf, tetap saja luka itu tetap ada di hati dan perasaan mereka. Walaupun di mulut mereka memaafkan saya, tapi rasa marah dan kecewa akan membekas. Ini adalah salah satu pengalaman hidup ku untuk menjadikan diriku besar. Kenyataan tersebut yang menjadikan diriku kuat hingga hari ini... Tidak mudah memang menghadapinya, pun tidak semudah perkataanku dalam wujud tulisan ini.
Perlahan kulalui semua itu dengan besar hati...dan tetap melangkah untuk menjadikan segalanya lebih baik lagi.
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